Only you who can love yourself the way you want it to be. We can’t rely on other people because all of us have different paths and struggles in life. We have different challenges to face and obstacles to surpass.
Self-worth can’t be found on someone or something. It is always from you. You can’t rely on your partner, friends, and family to handle your worth. Worth is something that you manage and apply based on your own experiences.
If somebody hurts you, forgive them. Forgive them not because you’re weak but, forgiveness will help you to settle your overthinking issues in your head. It will help you to be at peace and positive. It will help you grow and become a better version of yourself.
If they can’t accept for who you are, let them go. You don’t deserve someone, who’ll change you based on their needs and preferences. You don’t need someone to feel beautiful. Because all of us are beautiful in our own ways.
Once you felt that respect is no longer being served, run, and let go. You don’t need to be disrespected just to show how they care and love you. You must know yourself really well to avoid being used by other people.
You must know your strength and weaknesses to avoid unexpected situations. However, there are always people who will teach us, so by that you should not only collect experiences but also collect lessons that you’ve learned and applied to improve yourself.
You’re the only director of your life. We have different phasing and challenges in life. Comparing yourself to others won’t help you to find the real you.
Love yourself first, so other can do so.